There once was a wild yellow rose who lived deep in the heart of Texas. When she was a little girl, with a little curl right in the middle of her forehead, she would run barefoot in the fields until the bottoms of her feet were black! Then she would spin round and round until she fell to the ground. Face turned upwards, she would stare at the clouds as they danced by, dreaming outrageous dreams. And like all good fairy tales, when she grew up, she fell in love.
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I had been warned about the unique challenges of a long distance relationship. I was duly advised of their difficulty and near impossibility. But, being a head strong Texan, I wasn’t gonna let a little challenge deter me. And since we do everything bigger here, I reckoned if I was gonna do this long distance thing, I needed thousands of miles, a deep ocean and another continent!
Dating across an ocean for 16 months has been a unique experience. Google Chat is a God-Send! I’ve spent more than one date night watching movies on Youtube while simultaneously video chatting on Gmail. It’s time consuming, requires real affection (addiction!) and is tremendously cute in its way. But no more. The techno-geekery-love-affair is almost behind me. Gone will be the days of taking whatever cheap flight I can find, even if it requires a six hour layover in Atlanta. Immigration at Dublin airport will no longer need to tease me, asking when the wedding is. I am moving!!! Come September, 2010….or thereabouts, we are taking the plunge. I am moving in, we are applying for my Visa stamp and life will be oh, so much sweeter, and less nerdy!
For years I have daydreamed of living in Ireland. I thought it would be graduate school that granted that wish. In the end, it is love of a Donegal man.
And when she closed her eyes and kissed him under the warm May sun, she knew. Her heart forever belonged in Donegal.
4 comments:
Traci,
Bill here from Another Year in Ireland. Thanks for stopping by the blog. Looks like your partner is Irish, so you've already got an advantage over us. We moved to Dublin 2 1/2 years ago after nine years in Austin with no idea how to do anything. Since you're a Texan like my wife (I got there as soon as I could, as they say) you'll understand our biggest frustration: no Tex-Mex or Mexican food worth eating. Also, very little in the way of Mexican staples. We import chiles and other essentials ourselves and via our "mules."
Will you be living in Donegal? We've been up that way several times--absolutely breathtaking. I'd love to discuss our experiences further if you want via email. You can send me your email via a comment on our blog and I'll reject it so it won't cause any spam for you.
Cheers,
Bill
Hi Bill,
Actually, we will be in Dublin. My partner is from Donegal, but lives and works in the capital.
Haha. I hear you about the food!! We tried a Mexican restaurant in the city centre last time I was there. It was sad. Of course, now that he's tasted the real deal, nothing there even compares. Breaks my heart to hear you can't find staples. I was hoping to locate some little ethnic shop. :(
Hi Traci, so when is the big day? Best of luck for this big step! I'm looking forward to reading how you're getting on. :)
Hi,
My plane departs 17 September. Thanks for the well wishes. It's a big leap, but I think I'm up for the adventure. :)
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